If someone wants to get out of your life you should never stop them and let them go. No matter how hard we try to hold them, we can never glu them. No matter how much we loves them, they will never want to join us. We should never think that they are leaving because of our mistakes. During these times the devil brings to mind a lot of satanic thoughts. You will never be happy again, nothing will happen to you because you’re older, you will never have a career again. The devil brings to our minds a variety of thoughts that wealth can never be created and that living is of no use. You should never believe those thoughts. Love cannot be captured. Just think that if the person we love dies, we should live. I want to tell you what I have experienced and am experiencing. No matter how much pain and neglect that person gives you, submit everything to God. Then believe that nothing has happened and know that nothing can happen in our lives without God’s knowledge. You must think that God has not forgotten you. Many will come to counsel us during these times but wait for the work of God. At this time we must wait patiently and pray to avoid unnecessary thoughts. Forget our pain and think only of the pain that Jesus endured on the cross. Then wait for God’s plans. We must never go to the feet of those who leave us or to beg
1 John1:19 They went out from us, but they did not really belong to us. For if they had belonged to us, they would have remained with us; but their going showed that none of them belonged to us.
It’s not as easy as it sounds. The pain of leaving someone behind is excruciating. Our heart really hurts. But you have to let go of the pain you are carrying. We can never bring a dead person back to life. This time is really a trial period. God looks at how much we trust and live by Him. When God’s time comes, we will see the miracles before us.
Genesis 13:14-15 The Lord said to Abram after Lot had parted from him, “Look around from where you are, to the north and south, to the east and west. 15 All the land that you see I will give to you and your offspring[a] forever.
Ruth 4:14-15 The women said to Naomi: “Praise be to the Lord, who this day has not left you without a guardian-redeemer. May he become famous throughout Israel! 15 He will renew your life and sustain you in your old age. For your daughter-in-law, who loves you and who is better to you than seven sons, has given him birth.”
In both cases, God blessed them because they were abandoned by those who loved them. So no need to feel lonely and inferior. Because God is watching us. He knows what we’re going through so just blindly trust him what ever the pain. God never planned our destiny with that person. So no matter who leaves you, let them go from your life. It’s not easy to say but nothing just happened… move on towards trust in God.